Men's Certification
2/21/25: Basic outline built, will add more lessons to each chapter.
I’m focusing on the Personal Growth course first.
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Universality of Women's Safety Fears
Part of the reason it’s hard for men to get a woman on a date is because women don’t know whether or not this is going to be the last thing they do…
Part of the reason it’s hard for men to get a woman on a date is because women don’t know whether or not this is going to be the last thing they do…
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Women Want Different Things Than Men
If you run in with expectations about what a woman wants, you’re going to hit your head on a closed door.
If you run in with expectations about what a woman wants, you’re going to hit your head on a closed door.
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Ask Questions. Ask So Many Questions. Ask All the Questions.
Introduce your lesson with an optional, short summary. You can edit this excerpt in lesson settings.
Introduce your lesson with an optional, short summary. You can edit this excerpt in lesson settings.
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Watch for Stress
One of the best ways to stay ahead of problems in your relationship is to watch for signs of stress.
One of the best ways to stay ahead of problems in your relationship is to watch for signs of stress.
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It’s not fair to ask women to trust you if you don’t know what you’re doing.
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Assumptions Damage Competence
Every time you make an assumption about how something is done, or what a woman wants, an angel loses its sanity.
Every time you make an assumption about how something is done, or what a woman wants, an angel loses its sanity.
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You Need a Strong Social Support System
Having support from other humans can make all the difference.
Having support from other humans can make all the difference.
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Building Your Social Support System
It takes work. The older you get, the more work it takes. Don’t expect it to fall in your lap.
It takes work. The older you get, the more work it takes. Don’t expect it to fall in your lap.
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Sense of Safety is Critical
Not feeling safe can be traumatizing. Not to mention she won’t want to be alone with you if she doesn’t feel safe, or hasn’t in the past.
Not feeling safe can be traumatizing. Not to mention she won’t want to be alone with you if she doesn’t feel safe, or hasn’t in the past.
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Things That Make Women Feel Unsafe
Please never argue with a woman who says she feels unsafe. It makes everything worse and your chance at making it right will be over.
Please never argue with a woman who says she feels unsafe. It makes everything worse and your chance at making it right will be over.
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Introducing your instructor
Lilly is a big fan of the patriarchy, but also kind of afraid of it.
It’s been mean to her in the past.
The Old Patriarchy should maybe think long and hard about how it treated her. Maybe even offer an apology. Idk. Think about it, maybe.
This Patriarchy is different.
It’s kinder. It’s gentler.
It features protections. Lilly needs these protections. She is delicate and can wither away under the wrong conditions.
The Wholesome Patriarchy offers a framework for doing the Patriarchy without being abusive.
It includes many things that men might not have thought of before, but that matter to women.
This course also has information about the necessary additional requirements of a non-egalitarian dynamic.
You should read it as it’s available. It will make Lilly happy.
FAQs
There are no frequently asked questions. I’m just making this up right now.
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Because I am soft and delicate and I know what us soft and delicate things need.
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I don’t like the word “should.”
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Say it differently.
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Because it’ll be fun.